tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2077562163557081479.post6313037936307272306..comments2023-09-06T05:15:42.810-04:00Comments on The Junky's Wife: New Anxiety.joyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01453075718683708291noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2077562163557081479.post-28816023206588998612007-09-18T00:23:00.000-04:002007-09-18T00:23:00.000-04:00I know this feeling -- and I think I was writing t...I know this feeling -- and I think I was writing that week-old perpetually half-finished post about it -- the crazy feeling of panic that comes with anything out of the ordinary, any change, because we've learned that change in routine means using, drinking, acting out, active addiction...Mary P Jones (MPJ)https://www.blogger.com/profile/10251787926841410344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2077562163557081479.post-37279134104036917622007-09-17T20:44:00.000-04:002007-09-17T20:44:00.000-04:00Meeting are good darlin'.He needs to move towards ...Meeting are good darlin'.He needs to move towards doing these things and becoming self-reliant<BR/>Try not to make him feel weird about it.longvowelshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07269215417661047880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2077562163557081479.post-37531787184457539962007-09-17T19:38:00.000-04:002007-09-17T19:38:00.000-04:00If he didn't seek out a meeting to go to and didn'...If he didn't seek out a meeting to go to and didn't express his thoughts on the need then that would be a bigger situation.<BR/><BR/>I would question it too. Not knowing what could have sparked such a need/want at a time when it isn't usual. Is it because it is out of the normal routine that has you worried so?<BR/><BR/>Turn your worry around and into positive thoughts and all else will fall into place.<BR/><BR/>Wishing you well, always.Urban Thoughthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11846671502291683191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2077562163557081479.post-47522285242529712852007-09-17T19:21:00.000-04:002007-09-17T19:21:00.000-04:00I was going to say your not a wreck, your just inf...I was going to say your not a wreck, your just informed about a solution which means your also, perhaps unexpectedly, informed about a problem. But you probably already know that by now cause it's 7:30 your time and he's at his meeting.Wayward Sonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16169683029085558375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2077562163557081479.post-77587090949380880752007-09-17T17:25:00.000-04:002007-09-17T17:25:00.000-04:00This is a good place to put those feelings. You'r...This is a good place to put those feelings. You're right, that's what meetings are for. But when you're having a scary or difficult time, you know exactly what you're dealing with b/c it's YOUR hard time. Dealing with someone else's hard time is harder. You've got the tools though, and you'll get through. A wise woman recently reminded me, "don't be alone, use the phone." Love ya!!Recovery Discovery (R)https://www.blogger.com/profile/04118170655390372410noreply@blogger.com